When should you follow up for that second date?

The sweet spot: within 24–48 hours

If you enjoyed the first date, follow up the next day or within two days. That shows interest without feeling overeager. Waiting a week can signal hesitation or lukewarm feelings.

A simple guide

• If the date went really well:
  Text later that night or the next morning.
  “I had a great time tonight — would love to see you again.”

• If you’re unsure but open:
  Check in the next day.
  “I enjoyed meeting you yesterday. Want to grab coffee this week?”

• If they mentioned being busy:
  Follow up in a few days with a specific plan.

What matters more than timing

• Be clear (don’t hint — ask).

• Suggest a specific plan (day/activity).

• Match their energy (if they texted right after, don’t disappear for days).

The biggest myth? That waiting makes you more desirable. In reality, emotional maturity and directness are far more attractive.